Around the 8–12 week mark something interesting happens: People stop looking at the calendar. They don’t think about whether they “feel like training.” They don’t fight with themselves. They just go. Because at that point, it’s no longer something they do. It’s who they are. This is what my book calls Identity over Intensity — when the behaviour becomes automatic.

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